Why do people have one-night stands?

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Despite the commonly held belief that women are the more romantic, sensitive sex, a new study suggests that they can be just as pragmatic as men when it comes to their reasons for having casual sexual encounters. “Like men, a number of women said they were basically motivated by desire and pleasure,” says Pamela C. Regan, Ph.D., a psychologist at California State University in Los Angeles. Regan surveyed 188 adults ages 18 to 45 and found that 44 percent of women and 68 percent of men had had casual sex — flings, one-night stands or “sexual friendships,” where partners sleep together but don’t consider the relationship romantic. Surprisingly, women were likelier than men (24 percent versus 16 percent) to say they sought out these liaisons to expand their sexual horizons. Said one female survey respondent: “I needed to feel like I could explore sexually, without ties or obligations.” Read Whole Story >>

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Do afrodisiacs work?

The search for a magic elixir to inflame desire is a centuries-old quest, but according to experts at the Food and Drug Administration, the vast majority of claims made for over-the-counter aphrodisiacs are “misleading and unsupported by scientific data.”

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Do afrodisiacs work?


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Where to meet for a casual fun?

Where to meet?
Here we bring you some advice from experienced users.

The Barnes and Noble superstore, place for casual sex:
The Barnes and Noble superstore, place for casual sex


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Why do men get erections when they sleep?

Q: Why do men get erections when they sleep? –H.T., 25

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A: He’s dreaming of someone, or something, that makes his tent go pup. For a more detailed explanation, I talked to James Barada, M.D., a urologist and director of the Center for Male Sexual Health in Albany, New York. “Nocturnal erections are a normal, healthy process that occurs during REM sleep. A man’s erecto-genic center of the brain sends signals to the penis, causing the surrounding tissue to relax and allowing the blood vessels there to fill the penis with blood. This causes an erection,” he says. Just like Viagra, I point out. “Exactly. In fact, a way to judge a man’s future impotence is to count how many erections he gets per night,” says Dr. Barada.

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Personals Tip Sheet

No one ever said finding love through the personals was easy. Nor did anyone say writing a compelling, revealing and irresistible personal ad was a piece of interactive cake. But after hooking up thousands of online lovers, CasualSexMates has learned a thing or two about baiting and snagging the best fish out there.

Tips for Personals:
Personals Tip Sheet


Follow our ten little tips to learn how to make our Personals work for you.

Picture your prospective beau or belle sitting at the computer, scrolling through ad after indistinguishable ad, making instant, automatic mental cuts. Your first goal? Stand out from the crowd without looking like an ass.

Tip 1: Headline
The first thing your reader will see, it obviously better be snappy. Try not to use ominous “personals talk,” such as “ISO” or “SWF.” You’ll come off as overly experienced, and worse, unimaginative. On the other hand, writing “Can’t think of a clever headline” might seem unique, but trust us — it’s not. Instead, be poetic. If you don’t have a poet’s heart, go ahead and steal a lyric from your favorite band. We won’t tell.

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Casual Sex Place – Elevator

When I was in college, my study/fuck buddy and I discovered that by deftly manipulating the Emergency Stop button in the elevator of our dorm, we could halt the car without setting off the alarm. After an invigorating ride, we would arrive flushed and smiling in the lobby and breeze past the unwitting crowd waiting for a lift to their floor.

Casual Sex in Elevator:
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The Beauty of Booty

Men like rear ends — no ifs, ands or butts about it!

A butt is a terrible thing to hide. Nothing bums me out quite so much as the sight of a cardigan tied around a woman’s waist, or any other rump-wrapping fashion that too many women use to conceal the God-given splendor of their primary physical asset. I also hate it when my female friends do that thing where they look down over their shoulder, frown and turn to me and ask, “Does my butt look bad?” You see, for men, there’s no such thing as a bad-looking butt. Show me any ol’ rear end — something that you think is too big, too small, too round, too Betty Boop — and I’ll find you at least a dozen men who think it’s the defining vision of womanly perfection. You see, just like British soccer teams and single-malt scotch, every kind of behind has its male aficionados. Skeptical? Have a seat and listen up:

Big Booty:
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Quick Casual Eating, Meeting, Sex and Goodbye

I woke up at 11:30 one recent weekday (OK, so I’m a slacker) with boyfriend on the brain. I called him pre-coffee: “How’s about stopping by my place for lunch today?” He said, “Sure, but it has to be a quick bite to eat because I’m on deadline.” He arrived at 1:10; his pants were off at 1:12, and he was out the door by 1:25. Buh-bye! Thanks for coming!

Quick Casual Sex Meeting:
Quick Casual Sex Meeting

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My husband left me a few months ago

Q: My husband left me a few months ago, and I’m just starting to date. What should I tell guys? –B.K., 26

A: Nothing. Everyone knows that switching on the Emotional History Channel too early is bad scheduling. I mean, would you turn to a guy during your first dinner and brightly confide, “My father treated my mother like garbage for thirty years, which explains my deep-seated mistrust of males, which a wide array of experts have assured me will last a lifetime! Are you getting an appetizer?”

Better to save those tantalizing gems about your fears, neuroses or most recent UFO sightings for when you two have bedrock to build on. A good guidepost: If you can fart in front of him without apology (sorry for using the word fart), you’re on sufficiently intimate ground. Which is not to imply that the first time you let one rip, you should scream out, “So I was married, OK? He left me! Happy now?” It simply means you want to reach a certain comfort level before you break the, uh, news.

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Casual teen sex videos

So many new ideas are required to keep your sexual life kicking. Many of the couples today find it boring to have sex the same way that they have been doing till now. It could lead to serious issues later. Disinterest of your partner in sex activity can turn your off big time and ultimately both of you will end up fighting over petty issues. If you have casual sex with fuckfriends then still there are chances to avoid boredom but even the casual sex activity never really is free of boredom. You can get bored in casual sex as well.

Casual teen sex videos:
Casual teen sex videos


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